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| Newsletter: January 2005 [Jan] [Feb] [Mar] [Apr] [May] [Jun] [Jul] [Aug] [Sep] [Oct] [Nov] [Dec] February 2005 Word
from the Editor I’ve been at the dojo now for oh, I dunno, must be close to six or seven years now, and helping out and teaching for pretty close to that long. I actually started helping out when I was a yellow belt, but that’s another story. The thing that always interests me though is that parents bring their children to the dojo for pretty much the same reasons. They want them to be schooled in a martial art to be able to protect themselves and to learn discipline and respect. I think though, a lot of people miss the most important reason to undertake learning a martial art, and that is to learn the value of perseverance. Think about it. A martial art takes years to learn and then master. But when many adults join, and parents sign up their children, I don’t see a lot of consideration given to the fact that this is not like hockey or soccer, where the student does it for a season and then is done. This is a course of study that requires a true commitment of years to complete. It is an excellent opportunity for children to be taught the value of persevering even in the face of adversity, maybe they don’t advance through one of the higher belts as quickly as they would like, maybe they aren’t having as much fun because they have to work harder. Whatever the case, as my grandmother used to say “if it doesn’t kill you, it will make you strong”. So many things that used to be regarded as important are treated with cavalier disregard today. Don’t like your job, go on unemployment. Don’t like school, drop out. Don’t like your marriage, get a divorce. Even voting for our government is not an exercise in choosing the best candidate, but rather choosing the least undesirable of equally unsuitable candidates. This steady march to mediocrity and an attitude of “I can’t be bothered ” cannot be what we want for our children. What better way to reverse this trend today toward mediocrity than to teach our children the value of perseverance and responsibility. Let them realize that having embarked on a study of the martial arts, that they must see it through to the ultimate goal – their black belt. I know from personal experience with my children and some of the advanced students, that not only do they gain a valuable lesson in “sticking to something no matter what”, but they also get a tremendous sense of accomplishment that will influence them in their lives for a very long time. Personal experience has shown that other things that are gained in the course of not leaving the journey unfinished are things like improved work ethic, improved self esteem and self confidence and a sense of pride. Of course having said all that the question is, did we ourselves learn the lessons of perseverance that we can now pass on to our children, or are we one of those people who say “I can’t be bothered”.
Housekeeping
Dojo Closures The following are the dates that the dojo will be closed. Please keep this handy for future reference. A copy will also be posted on the lobby bulleting board. Good Friday:
Friday March 25 If there are any public holidays that I’ve missed please let me know and I’ll add them, but I think that’s all of them.
World Kobudo Federation (WKF) Membership 2005 Fee - $20.00 Don’t forget that your WKF fees are now due. The fees can be given to Alison in the office. For only $20.00, your WKF membership fee includes some of the following benefits:
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